The wedding processional is one of the most emotionally charged moments of your entire day. It's the grand build-up to seeing each other for the first time, and the music you choose plays a monumental role in setting that scene. This guide will help you navigate the choices for each part of the processional, ensuring a beautiful and memorable entrance for everyone involved.
Understanding the Processional Order
Typically, the processional unfolds in a specific order, though you can always adapt it to your preferences:
- Seating of Mothers/Grandmothers: A gentle, heartfelt piece.
- Groom/Groomsmen Entrance: Can be the same as the mothers or slightly more distinct.
- Bridesmaids/Maid of Honor Entrance: Often a consistent piece for the entire bridal party.
- Flower Girl/Ring Bearer: A light, whimsical interlude can be lovely here.
- The Grand Entrance (Bride/Partner): The highlight! This song should be distinct and deeply meaningful.
Choosing Music for Each Segment
1. Seating of Honored Guests (Mothers, Grandmothers)
Select a piece that is warm, inviting, and not too dramatic. Instrumental piano versions of classic love songs or gentle classical pieces work beautifully. Think elegance and heartfelt emotion.
Suggestions: "Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring" (Bach), instrumental "Can't Help Falling in Love" (Elvis Presley), "Ave Maria" (Schubert).
2. Groom and Groomsmen
The music can continue from the seating of the mothers, or you can opt for something slightly more masculine or with a touch more presence, while still maintaining a respectful and anticipatory tone.
Suggestions: "Prince of Denmark's March" (Clarke), instrumental "Stand By Me" (Ben E. King).
3. Bridesmaids and Maid/Matron of Honor
This is where the main processional theme often begins. Choose a song that builds anticipation and reflects the beauty of the moment. Consistency is key here, using one song for the entire group before the bride's entrance.
Suggestions: "Canon in D" (Pachelbel - if you love it!), "A Thousand Years" (Christina Perri), "Marry Me" (Train - instrumental).
4. Flower Girl(s) and Ring Bearer(s)
If you have little ones, a slightly different, perhaps more playful or innocent melody can be a charming touch. It can be a short interlude or a distinct piece.
Suggestions: "Pure Imagination" (from Willy Wonka), "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" (instrumental).
5. The Star of the Show: The Bride's/Partner's Entrance
This is THE moment. Your song should be powerful, deeply personal, and evoke all the emotions you feel. It should be distinct from the bridesmaids' music to signal your arrival. The tempo should allow for a graceful walk down the aisle.
Suggestions: "Bridal Chorus" (Wagner - traditional), "Turning Page" (Sleeping at Last), "Hallelujah" (Leonard Cohen - instrumental), or a song that is incredibly special to you as a couple.
Tips for a Seamless Processional:
- Consider the Venue: A grand cathedral might call for more traditional or classical pieces, while an outdoor garden setting could suit contemporary instrumental songs.
- Timing is Key: Work with your musician and wedding coordinator to ensure the music flows well with the pace of each person walking down the aisle. A live pianist can adapt timing much more easily than a recording.
- Listen to Instrumental Versions: Many popular songs have beautiful piano arrangements that are perfect for a wedding ceremony.
- Don't Be Afraid to Be Unique: Choose music that reflects your personality and love story.
The processional is your overture. With thoughtful selections, the music will enhance every step down the aisle, creating memories that last a lifetime. As a pianist, I love helping couples find or create the perfect arrangements for these significant moments.
Ready to find the perfect soundtrack for your walk down the aisle? Contact me to discuss your ceremony music!