Your first dance as a married couple is one of the most anticipated and memorable moments of your wedding day. The song you choose sets the tone for this intimate highlight, so picking one that resonates with both of you is key. But where do you start?
Reflect on Your Relationship
- Shared Memories: Is there a song that was playing on your first date, during a special trip, or when you got engaged?
- Concerts or Events: Did you see a particular artist together whose music you both love?
- "Your Song": Do you already have a song that feels like it belongs to your relationship?
Consider the Lyrics & Vibe
Pay close attention to the words. Do they reflect your feelings and the journey of your relationship? Even if a song has a great melody, lyrics about heartbreak might not be the best fit! Think about the overall mood you want to create – romantic and slow, fun and upbeat, or elegantly timeless?
A live piano version can often bring out the emotional depth of lyrics or transform an upbeat song into a beautiful, danceable ballad.
Think About Danceability
Are you planning a choreographed masterpiece or a simple, sweet sway? Choose a song with a tempo and rhythm that you'll both feel comfortable dancing to. If you're unsure, try dancing to a few contenders in your living room!
Don't Be Afraid to Be Unique
While there are many popular first dance songs, don't feel pressured to pick something just because it's trendy. The most meaningful choice is one that is personal to you as a couple. It could be an old classic, a current chart-topper, or even an instrumental piece that speaks to your hearts.
As your pianist, I love working with couples to find or arrange the perfect version of their chosen song. Whether it's a classic ballad or a unique indie track, a live piano performance can make your first dance even more magical.
Need help finding the perfect tune or want to discuss a custom piano arrangement for your first dance? Let's connect!