Alongside your first dance, the parent dances—the Father-Daughter and Mother-Son dances—are among the most emotional and cherished moments of a wedding reception. Choosing the right song is key to creating a memory that you and your parents will treasure forever. Here are some tips and song ideas to help you find the perfect tune.

Tips for Choosing Your Parent Dance Songs

  • Make it Personal: Think about your relationship with your parent. Is there a song you both love, an artist you listened to together, or a song from a movie you always watched? A song with a personal connection will always be more meaningful than a generic choice.
  • Consider the Lyrics: Read the lyrics carefully! A song might sound beautiful, but its message could be about romantic love or even heartbreak. Look for lyrics that speak to familial love, guidance, and cherished memories.
  • Think About Tempo: Just like with your first dance, you need a song you can comfortably dance to. Whether you want a traditional slow dance or something a little more upbeat, practice a bit to make sure it feels right.
  • Don't Be Afraid to Be Different: The song doesn't have to be a slow ballad. If you and your parent share a love for a fun, upbeat song, go for it! The dance should reflect your unique relationship.
  • Talk to Your Parent: This is a shared moment. Ask your father or mother if they have any song ideas or preferences. Choosing the song together can be a special experience in itself.

Father-Daughter Dance Song Ideas

This dance is a sweet tribute to the first important man in a bride's life.

  • Classic & Heartfelt: "My Girl" (The Temptations), "The Way You Look Tonight" (Frank Sinatra), "What a Wonderful World" (Louis Armstrong).
  • Country Charm: "I Loved Her First" (Heartland), "My Little Girl" (Tim McGraw), "Daddy's Hands" (Holly Dunn).
  • Modern & Touching: "Daughters" (John Mayer), "Sweet Pea" (Amos Lee), "You Are My Sunshine" (especially versions by Christina Perri or Morgane Stapleton).
  • A Little Different: "She's a Rainbow" (The Rolling Stones), "You've Got a Friend in Me" (Randy Newman).

Mother-Son Dance Song Ideas

This dance honors the special bond between a groom and his mother.

  • Timeless Classics: "A Song for Mama" (Boyz II Men), "Stand By Me" (Ben E. King), "What a Wonderful World" (Louis Armstrong).
  • Warm & Gentle: "You'll Be in My Heart" (Phil Collins), "Simple Man" (Lynyrd Skynyrd or the Shinedown acoustic version), "My Wish" (Rascal Flatts).
  • Unique & Modern: "93 Million Miles" (Jason Mraz), "Home" (Phillip Phillips), "Days Like This" (Van Morrison).
  • For the Beatles Fans: "In My Life" or "Let It Be" are both beautiful, poignant choices.

The Beauty of a Live Piano Version

A live piano arrangement can add an extra layer of elegance and emotion to any of these songs. It allows for a more personal and intimate feel, turning a familiar tune into a unique and unforgettable moment. The flexibility of a live performance also means the song can be tailored to the perfect length for your dance.

No matter what song you choose, the most important thing is that it comes from the heart. This dance is a beautiful expression of love and gratitude, and the right music will make it a memory you'll hold onto forever.

Considering a special piano arrangement for your parent dances? I would be honored to help create that moment with you.